The Wrong One

Once again I fall for the wrong person.

I thought we'd be passionate.

Then you stomped on me.

And you just left me with just a smile.

For I'm just a friend.

Why would you do all these to me?

How could you let me cry?

You are being hot and cold to me.

If the excuse is your occasional tenderness;

I wish I would never be serious about you.

Secret Lover

Relationship between friends gets complicated;

When you decided to get romantic.

The blur line between friend and lover.

Just a friend, that's all she has been to you.

She doesn't have much to offer;

But her heart and soul.

And she guesses that's not enough for you to notice her.

She tries to smile when you flirt with the girls.

She needs to stay calm when she's with you.

Because the way you look at her shows only friendship.

You don't want pressure nor limitations.

She has to remove the emotion baggage as well.

As she's the only one going attached into this secretly.

She's hoping for more than just physical.

Is it still possible for you to separate emotions from this?

Do you ever care?

The Rebound

Does age really matter in a relationship? As in is it awkward for girls to date younger guys? Somehow many people are still preferably to the idea of guys older than girls. I used to have this perception as well. Now i'm unsure of it. But even celebrities like Justin Bieber is dating woman older than him. So age could be just a number that symbolizes how long you have been alive. When you're in love age is nothing. At least you're not having an age gap of 20 years. After all, love is blind, it's the same like people used to be blinded by social class, race and religion. As long as it is a man and a woman, it's fine. Gays and lesbians make me sick somehow.

I think it depends on emotionally maturity of the people involved. If both parties are mature enough to handle a real relationship and genuinely care about each other, then it can work out and last. Vice versa. But in average, guys are like 2 years behind girls' maturity level. So it's still better to pick a guy whom has the same maturity level as you. It will be easier and more productive in your relationship. Guys often get into relationships with older girls for the same reason girls go for older guys. They're seeking for maturity, stability and experience.

While many are still insisting in making issue out of the age difference, it's just a minor factor in the success of a relationship. Bonding of heart and mind make relationships work. Respect, trust and true love matter far more than just age.

Black Ribbon for the Nihon-jin

As everyone knows, Japan was devastated by the worst disaster ever - A massive 8.9/9.0 magnitude earthquake on 11th March 2011. It caused great damages with blackouts, fire and tsunami. Boats, cars, rails, roads, and houses were all swept away. At least 10,000 people died and injured and the numbers of victims are still counting. A tsunami warning has been triggered to Russia, Marcus Island, Taiwan, Philippines, Indonesia, Malaysia, Hawaii and some other coastal areas.

I feel like crying at the first second I watched the tsunami video. The disaster destroyed everything! Imagine if your family or friends suffered in the disaster. My heart aches. All of us live under a nation. I sympathize for the victims. But I couldn't do anything other than just pray for them. This could be a punishment or warning that God is showing His anger. Human beings have to stop destroying our mother nature.

The Japanese are now facing scene from the hell. Their homes have been flattened. They have no water, no food and no power. They need our help so much.

To donate for the victims, kindly visit this website:

http://www.google.com/crisisresponse/japanquake2011.html

Your help is much appreciated.

Condolences to the victims and their families.

Japan. We are with you.

Let us all pray for the Japanese.

Pray for the world too.