Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Deceit ?


Why do most of the couples lie to each other?

The romantic relationships are often not what they seem to be like.
Most couples claim trust built their love.
In fact, reality doesn't always work that way.
Do you really think that your partner is so trustworthy?

Love is just full of lies, betrayal and deception.
Couples often lie about their feelings for each other;
And the feelings they have for others.
Level of commitment doesn't really matter.
Since even you commit by getting married,
you can always get divorced easily.
Marriage is like buying yourselves a paper of commitment.
Does the marriage certificate guarantee a happy marriage?
Or are you sure your spouse won't betray you after you get married?

Sometimes people tend to overlook, downplay or ignore the paradoxes in love.
It works very well if they do not carry out the problem and confront.
However, we have to always prepare ourselves until the day comes.
Because your spouse might intentionally or unintentionally lie to you someday.

People often claim they are just overprotective ;
So they choose to make white lies;
Which they think white lies protect their spouse from being hurt.
We think we know our spouse well.
In fact, it is just the trust we used to believe,
That provides us a sense of security and comfort.
As we trust our spouse more,
We become more confident but less accurate in determining the truth.

In a nutshell, close relationships create wonderful opportunity for deception to occur.
We place the most trust on the person that will most likely deceive us.

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